MY TRIPLETS
I am Lyn I grow up in the philippines. When I was 4 yrs.old my real father abandoned us and we are all five siblings. But my mother found a bristish Husband when I was 5 yrs.old, he was so nice and he give us nice life and education, I treat him my more than my real father when I was 18 yrs.old I got pregnant during my college days so I have a son, but I still pursued my college didn't give up my education and the father of my son very irresponsible and I think me and my son will never have a future to him, its very different you already have a son my life change a lot I always think is not only me now I have my son that he need to have a father and a good future. So I join this site dating then I found my husband there and his american his already 46 yrs.old on that time and I am 23 yrs.old and my son is 4 yrs.old. We got married in the philippines then he brought us in Egypt yup!!! in egypt cause he was assign there already for 2 yrs. so from philippines to Egypt..Oh that's very new place for me and my son been missing my country for 6 months no friends. all I do volunteer and teach some sudanese children after 6 months I found a filipina and she is pregnant with triplets and her husband american too then I meet alot of filipina so Im very happy cause I have friends. Then me and my husband decided to do IVF or inventro its gonna be very big risk for me cause Im just 24 yrs.old but I am so brave to face it all..it all end up with 16 healthy eggs wow!!! they put 4 eggs on me ,then after 3 weeks positive I was pregnant..I am very happy the first ultrasound the doctor said I have twins wow very good news so I was so proud to have twins..but I was bleeding and bed rest very risky pregnancy then after a month again I think I was 3 months pregnancy another ultrasound, Gosh the doctor said " I was pregnant with triplets" so I shout "whattt?? I was crying my husband think I was crying cause I am happy I told him I am very happy but Im so scared cause I am so tiny Im just 93 pounds..so being pregnant with triplets I was bed rest almot my whole pregnancy alot of moment Im sad,but my husband he do everything to make me happy I have my laptop on my bed I just writing and surfing on the internet make my life busy while Im in the bed..my 5 yrs.old son he read at me and we still playing even I was bed rest his very understanding boy and smart love him so much..february 16 my sister from philippines she was there in Egypt with me..So I give birth of my triplets last february 27,2008 2 girls and one boy what is funny when the doctor ultrasound me he said its all boys just I have a lot blue color clothes,But I told my husband that I dream I have two girls and one boy he said its just a dream dont to much expects cause he dont like me to be dissapointed..but it all came out same as my dream 2 girls and one boy.
We are big family already so I was 24 yrs.old with 4 kids I breast feed almost 5 months but july 2008 after the cs when I give birth of my triplets I have apendectomy operation very bad moment for me cause I stay at the hospital for 5 days lucky I have 2 nannys live-in also my sister is there the I have my private driver too and my own car..Nice life in Egypt cause we have alot extra money..but when I have my apendectomy from my house to the nices hospital its almost a hour gosh really pain I am so scared on that time all I said God please I want to be with childrens..I missed my kids for 5 days then when I was home I told my husband I want you finish your job here lets go to the US my husband dissagree first but I always brought that up..I really want we are all in here in the US, November 2008 I felt something on my son one of the triplets his tummy on the other side kind of big is not balance so I told my husband that also my pediatrician at Egypt his Egyptian that the tummy of my son is kind of big he check him and he told us his just big baby,Decemeber 2008 Im still not happy Im scared for my children medical I really bringing out to my husband please we need to go America and my husband listen to me his so nice he always do everything for me. Then january we are starting looking a house and my husband found a job here In Illinois. March 2009 we are here my sister she go home to the philippines cause the US embassy didnt give her a visa..My life here change alot. I have a sister but she is in California I was so busy mom but I felt so secured so we established our new pediatrician he felt what I felt to the tummy of son I am starting to worry and he talk to us he ask alot question so we end up alot of test for my son of the triplets May 2009 my son Martin one of the triplets diagnosed of liver tumor cancer called "hepablastoma" me and my husband breakdown Oh my Im so scared for my son they told us that my son martin 80% of his liver already affected gosh.
Then my son martin his 1 year on that time he 3 rounds of chemo therapy after 3 months a very Good news that my son martin he have already a liver donor, Thank you so much God, he have his liver transplant I was so thankful to all the doctors at childrens hospital specially the liver transplant team..Now almost a year my son he have his liver tranplant I am so happy and thankful to God and the doctors who save my son life..and my oldest son he was so very understanding and my 2 girls I always give them alot of time ..Now my triplets 2 years ..so thankful to my husband that who always there for us he love his family so much..
Its been a rocky moment of my life but I have always a courage to face the trials that come I didnt give up..I always take care my children I give all the love that they need..My life is my family..
I write this story of mine maybe it will help other people and give them courage to face all the trials in our life dont give up..be strong and always find something to out ur pain..lucky that I found a friend here and also I have my neighbor she is a filipina too..I take care my triplets by myself I love them so much and oldest son.. again my Family is my life..
Fight cancer be brave to face the trials and dont lost hope..If ever I have a chance to write a book about my life story and also earn a little money,my first priority is to help the children who is fighting the cancer..I seen alot during on my son chemo therapy..my heart broke when I saw this childrens..I hate cancer just why me and my husband we help this study group ..the Doctor said my son is wonder kid his so brave too to face that situation I want to cry but I never cried infront of my son cause he get all his courage from me..
I am very thankful for the people who always pray for my son..
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